“Why I Love Looking My Age” A Woman’s Story About Being Herself And Loving It
This was a beautiful story about loving yourself and being comfortable with who you are. Originally this story appeared on Facebook which was a post by Annick Ribson.
“So. I was kind of a brat yesterday. And I don’t regret it one bit. I was headed to my gate at the airport when a man at a store suckered me in with a free bar of natural soap. NOTHING IS FREE PEOPLE! At least, not in airports, am I right?
This is basically how the conversation went.
Man: ‘your skin is so natural looking, you aren’t wearing any make-up, right?’
Me: ‘Um, nooooo?’
Man: ‘Let me guess your age…’ Proceeds to pull out a number 12 years younger than I am.
Me: ‘I look my age and that’s ok actually.’
Man: unsure how to handle that.. ‘let me show you our face serum, because if you aren’t careful to maintain your skin now, these wrinkles on your face will get much deeper, by 45, creams won’t help anymore.’
Me: ‘what’s wrong with a woman looking 40?’
Man: ‘Well let’s talk about the bags under your eyes, and smile lines, my eye cream could improve those in 15-minutes.’
Me: ‘What’s wrong with my eyes? I have a miracle baby at home and haven’t slept in 2 years, so if I have bags I am grateful to have them, and my husband and I laugh a lot. Those are his fault. He loves how I look… I don’t think I need your cream.’
Man: (nervously) ‘They may be manageable now, but by 50, it’s too late to correct sagging skin and deep wrinkles, unless you act now, only surgery can correct those.’
Me: ‘what’s wrong again with a woman aging? You know, my husband and I can’t wait to grow old together, we talk about it all the time, how we’ll be this funny wrinkled old couple. My husband is going to age too, we all are. It’s kind of how life works.’
Man: glancing nervously at other customers in the store who are listening in… ‘Wait, if it’s the price that’s an issue, I can offer you our special this week, all three creams for $199 – that’s cheaper than Botox!’
Me: ‘I look fine now, and when I’m 45 I will look fine, and when I’m 50 I will look fine, because there is nothing wrong with a woman aging. Old age is a privilege denied to many, and I don’t appreciate you marketing youth instead of your products, and denigrating aging women as a sales tactic. Thank you, but I don’t want or need your cream.’
I was so horrified by the normalcy of his sales pitch, and the sales ringing up at his cash, that I took a picture of that wrinkled baggy face he was selling to, right on the spot.
This is the face my children and my husband love. I think I’ll keep it.”